i'm extremely spoiled.

sometimes i feel really bad for my dad. he's not the nicest guy sometimes, and he only gets to see me and my sister so often, but i suppose he has his reasons for whatever he does. my sister's a total bitch to him, see- it's completely unfair. she takes control of him, and takes advantage of him. he tries to do whatever he can to make her happy, because he knows that he and i have too tumultuous of a relationship for anything to really be mended. but, ergo, because of this, my sister takes advantage of the poor man. we come to his house, and admittedly, we don't spend all that much time with him. i've analyzed that on my part, and that's derived from all sorts of issues between me and him. my sister though, argues those opinions of mine. she takes everything she can from him, and sits around in the basement on the computer or watching her life sift away in front of the television. and while admittedly, i immerse myself in these sorts of things a lot at his place- it's ridiculous the things she does. today, she said she had a sore throat, and so she decided to eat ice cream and watch tv, after my dad told her to go lay down. warning her, i told her it was a bad idea.

...later on today i got a call from my mother asking me to call my sister because she was in a fit. turns out my dad got furious with her for ignoring his requests, and got extremely upset. she said she didn't know, and that it wasn't her fault... it was ridiculous. moving on with this story though, she was speaking to me saying that she needed something for her throat, and said if it'd be a good idea to ask our dad to go out and buy mints for her. i told her that was mean, and slightly abusive- she said she didn't know what i was talking about. so out he goes, and he returns with halls, which is a good idea! little does my father know that my sister hates halls, though. and so she starts groaning and complaining about how she just wanted plain mints- how halls don't work, and only last for ten minutes (good luck with those mints then, child). anyways, she complains to my dad which upsets him even more- he's the man who made us an entire lobster meal all on his own.

...and tells her that if he does such a bad job of raising us, she can just go to our mom's place to live.

and so she calls my mom to ask to do so.

now my father and i have had our own issues, but she's leaving because he's upset with her for not getting her what she wants. seeing what goes on in the other house, she doesn't act like this at all.

i'm so sorry for my dad, he's had to raise the most spoiled brats in the world.